The Best Thing About Movember Isn't the Mo

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mateship is the whole point, the mo’s just the icon

Movember’s an easy one to get behind. Grow a mo you wouldn’t normally be caught dead with, cop some stick for it at work, raise a bit of money for a good cause along the way. That part’s never been the hard part. The actual point of the month is simpler than most blokes think too: checking in on your mates, the same way you’d check in on how someone’s training’s going.

We’re Ben and Kylie. We run STRYD Performance, a founder-run activewear brand on the Sunshine Coast. This isn’t a sales post. We just reckon Movember’s one of the better traditions going, and the check-in side of it deserves as much airtime as the mo does.

What Movember’s actually for

The mo started as a bit of fun with a serious reason behind it: raising awareness and money for men’s health, prostate and testicular cancer, and mental health. The mental health side matters because men are measurably worse at asking for help before things get serious. In the Australian Bureau of Statistics’ National Study of Mental Health and Wellbeing, only 37% of Australian men with a diagnosable mental health condition got professional support, against 55% of women. Movember’s trying to close that gap, and checking in on a mate is one of the easiest, lowest-effort ways to actually help.

Worth having saved in your phone either way: Lifeline (13 11 14), Beyond Blue (1300 22 4636), and 13YARN for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander callers (13 92 76). All three run 24 hours a day.

Same mateship, just pointed at how you’re actually going

You already know how to show up for your mates without overthinking it. That’s most of what mateship is. Checking in properly works the same way. It’s not a big serious sit-down, it’s the same instinct you already use to organise a game of touch footy or rope someone into a Saturday session, just pointed at a different question.

Three ways to do Movember properly this year

1. Ask the real question. β€œYou good?” gets a reflex β€œyeah, good.” Try β€œno, actually, how’s it all going?” and actually wait for the answer.
2. Save the numbers, just in case. Lifeline (13 11 14) and Beyond Blue (1300 22 4636), thirty seconds in your phone, done.
3. Keep checking in after November. The best mates don’t save it for one month a year.

Why we’re writing this

Mateship and showing up for each other has carried us through plenty, building STRYD included. We like Movember because it turns something that should happen all year into something blokes actually do together. If you need to talk to someone today, that’s Lifeline (13 11 14), Beyond Blue (1300 22 4636), or 13YARN (13 92 76), any time.

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Not the reason for this post, but if you’re kitting out for a Movember training session while you’re here, that’s what it’s for.

Frequently asked questions

What is Movember?

Movember is an annual men’s health awareness event held every November, originally built around growing a moustache to start conversations about men’s health, including prostate and testicular cancer, and mental health.

Why does Movember focus on mental health as well as the mo?

Because men are measurably worse at asking for help before things get serious. The Australian Bureau of Statistics’ National Study of Mental Health and Wellbeing found only 37% of Australian men with a diagnosable mental health condition accessed professional support, against 55% of women. Movember’s trying to close that gap.

How can I tell if a mate is doing it tough if he looks fine?

You often can’t from the outside. The practical move is to make checking in a normal, regular thing rather than something you only do when you notice a problem, and to ask a direct follow-up question rather than accepting a reflex β€œyeah, good” at face value.

What are Australia’s mental health crisis lines?

Lifeline on 13 11 14, Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636, and 13YARN on 13 92 76 for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander callers. All three operate 24 hours a day, every day.

Why is an activewear brand writing about Movember?

STRYD is founder-run by Ben and Kylie Sutton, and mateship has been part of what’s carried them through building the brand. This isn’t a product pitch, it’s shared because Movember’s one of the better traditions going and the check-in half of it deserves as much attention as the mo.

see you out there,
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